It was nearly a decade before the the perpetrator of the crime was prosecuted and convicted. “There were three or four other girls who were raped at different times by the same man in the neighborhood I lived in back then,” remembers Iraida. “I remember the day the DA said, ‘we finally found a judge who has the [guts] to hold him accountable to stand trial.’”

Iraida found strength in her family following the assault. “I’m lucky and blessed that I had a very supportive family. My family was constantly around me: my brothers, my mom, my dad. They were a very good support system.” She was also able to participate in different forms of therapy, including individual and group counseling.

Iraida found another source of comfort - her faith and her church. “For me, my faith in the lord has helped. Everyone is different with faith. I thank God every day that I’m alive.”

Iraida had her first child at 15 and two more sons down the road. Throughout it all, she remained persistent in her studies, completing her high school diploma, Bachelor of Arts, and ultimately a Master’s degree in counseling. “After my experience, I was so fascinated by the mind and what triggers the brain to act in certain fashions.” Iraida is currently pursuing her license and contemplating a doctorate degree.

In her spare time, Iraida enjoys staying involved with the youth through ministry work and trying to reach people who may be hurting. “I know I’m in need all the time. And I want to be there for anyone else who feels that way.” She’s also a busy grandmother and traveler, with her eyes set on a trip to Cuba.