In a world where support can make all the difference, our mission is to ensure that every survivor knows they are never alone. With our collective expertise, RAINN and The Trevor Project have combined forces to create a comprehensive guide on how to provide support to LGBTQ survivors of sexual violence.
This guide is a result of the shared commitment to support survivors and their allies with the knowledge and tools they need. Whether you're a friend, family member, or ally, our guide will equip you with the skills and understanding to be there for survivors when they need it most.
Welcome
Supporting LGBTQ survivors of sexual violence and being there for them as they navigate life after trauma, is a crucial aspect of collective healing. Whether you’re part of the LGBTQ community or not, it remains vital to provide a safe and empathetic space for everyone.
Learn how to show support for LGBTQ survivors:
- Listen without judgment. When a survivor chooses to share their experience, lend them an empathetic ear. Create a safe space for them to speak openly without fear of blame or shame. Remember, their feelings are valid and their experience deserves to be heard.
- Learn about ways to be an ally. Even if you already identify as a member of the LGBTQ community, it’s still important to hold space for those whose journey differs from your own. Allyship is about learning from others and supporting them.
- Respect autonomy. Empower survivors to make decisions that are right for them. Offer support, resources, and information, but allow them to reclaim a sense of control over their lives and healing process.
- Be available. Healing is not linear and isn't confined to a schedule. Let survivors know you're there for them whenever they need to talk or to simply have someone present.
- Be patient. Healing takes time. It's a journey of progress, setbacks, and triumphs. Patience is a gift you can offer by consistently being there without pressure or judgment.
- Celebrate resilience. As survivors take steps toward healing, celebrate their victories - no matter how small. Acknowledging their strength can help them see their progress and continue moving forward.
- Offer resources. Familiarize yourself with local LGBTQ-friendly and survivor support resources. Offer to help them find professional counseling, support groups, or hotlines like RAINN and The Trevor Project.
As a loved one of a survivor, your support after disclosure can be crucial in the healing process. Standing beside and supporting LGBTQ survivors, through the challenges and triumphs of life after trauma, is an important component in healing together.
RAINN and The Trevor Project
RAINN (Rape, Abuse and Incest National Network) is the nation’s largest anti-sexual violence organization. RAINN created and operates the National Sexual Assault Hotline in partnership with more than 1,000 local sexual assault service providers across the country. RAINN also carries out programs to prevent sexual violence, help survivors, and ensure that perpetrators are brought to justice.
- Follow RAINN on Facebook here
- Follow RAINN on Instagram here
- Follow RAINN on TikTok here
- Follow RAINN on X here
- Follow RAINN on YouTube here
- Follow RAINN on LinkedIn here
The Trevor Project is the leading suicide prevention organization for lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender, queer, and questioning (LGBTQ) people. They provide 24/7 crisis services for LGBTQ young people via a phone lifeline, text, and chat. They also operate innovative research, advocacy, public training, and peer support programs.
- Follow The Trevor Project on Facebook here
- Follow The Trevor Project on Instagram here
- Follow The Trevor Project on TikTok here
- Follow The Trevor Project on X here
- Follow The Trevor Project on YouTube here
- Follow The Trevor Project on LinkedIn here