There’s no failproof way to guarantee your child’s safety online—but open communication, active involvement, and awareness of the risks can make a real difference.
1. Start Early & Keep the Conversation Going
Talk with your kids about:
- Body boundaries and the difference between safe and unsafe touch
- The meaning of consent, including online boundaries
- What to do if someone makes them uncomfortable or asks for photos
Use age-appropriate language and check in regularly—not just once.
2. Monitor Tech Use—Not Just the Screen, But the Behavior
- Use parental controls and privacy settings on phones, tablets, and computers
- Review friend lists and chat logs periodically
- Keep devices in shared spaces when possible
- Be alert for sudden mood changes, secrecy, or new contacts your child won’t explain
3. Help Kids Stay Skeptical Online
Teach them to be cautious of:
- Strangers asking for photos, videos, or personal details
- Friends who suddenly act flirty or inappropriate online
- Adults or older teens who want to talk privately
- Games, apps, or chat platforms that hide conversations
Reinforce that it’s never their fault if someone crosses a boundary—no matter what they sent, said, or believed.
4. Learn the Warning Signs of Abuse
Children may not have the words to describe abuse, especially if they’re being threatened or manipulated. Watch for these warning signs:
- Withdrawal, anxiety, or depression
- Nightmares or trouble sleeping
- Sexual behavior or knowledge that’s inappropriate for their age
- Avoidance of certain people or places
- A sudden drop in grades or school attendance
- Running away or self-harm
If something feels off, trust your gut. Don’t wait for proof. Start the conversation.
5. Stay Informed
Technology evolves quickly. Apps, games, and social platforms change fast—so do the tactics used by abusers. RAINN offers ongoing updates, safety tips, and caregiver resources to help you stay ahead of the risks.
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